You didnt choke in my opinion.
Just letting rip with ton of verbal apostasy wont do a scrap of good. I aim, on the rare visits i get, to just have them walk away with one or two things to think about.
she will have gone away winded that the public out there are investigating them...and it aint good and the kids (depending on age) may well go away wondering WHY they are not allowed to look in other places...
Oz